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Singleness of Purpose – Overcoming Life’s Obstacles Without Punching

Some people describe a punch in terms of the structure of the body that supports and projects the arm and fist. Others harken to the term “throwing a punch” and explain that a punch is led by the hand and that the body needs but to form behind it. Of course, they are both correct as far as each goes. However, I like to take a step further back, beyond the body and to the mind that initiates the idea of the punch in the first place. 

A punch begins with a thought. An intent and a target create motion from stillness. The idea propels the fist and simultaneously structures the body behind it. To the extent that the individual understands and is well practiced in the posture, skeletal alignment, and muscular fluidity necessary for a strike, the punch will come into being to fulfill the intent created by the mind. 

Singleness of Purpose - Overcoming Life's Obstacles Without Punching

If all of this sounds esoteric, that’s because it is.

But everyone who has ever practiced has had moments when a strike was better (or worse) than the physical input should have made it. Inevitably, it was the mind overplaying (or underplaying) its role that created the mismatch. 

But what about all of the moments in life when we’re not punching people?

I’m glad you asked. As you have probably noticed, there are surprisingly few problems in life that can be solved by punching. Most issues need a much more subtle approach. Luckily, there is a direct translation between the skills associated with punching that you practice in your martial arts studio and the methods appropriate to solving and overcoming the other problems and challenges that life presents you with. 

In particular, the notion that the execution of a strike is initiated by the intention in the mind and formulated through the whole being as a single unified action directly translates into daily life. In this way, when we are confronted with a difficulty—be it an assignment at work or school; an interpersonal conflict with a friend, colleague, or stranger; or a developing a legacy project—you can apply the same single-mindedness of purpose that you practice with every punch you throw.

By so doing, you align your entire being behind your purpose. You bring not just your physical body but the greatest intentions of your mind and also the formidable powers of your spirit to bear on the problem at hand. And when you do, few things can stand in your way.

Except when it doesn’t work.

It is worth pointing out—and it’s worth writing a separate blog post discussing—that it doesn’t always work. In the same way that a powerful, focused, targeted strike will not settle all physical confrontations, a direct approach will not overcome all of life’s challenges. And in those instances, it is our ability to be flexible that will help us to prevail. 

But let us leave those greater subtleties to another day. Today let us simply relish the feeling of strength that we feel when we fully align our mind, body, and spirit and appreciate how much we can accomplish when we do so.

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