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Chris Santillo

Many Paths Up the Mountain

There are many paths up the mountain.

That is what we say when discussing other arts, all of the different ways people seek the benefits of Kempo training. All of these other arenas to which people go to challenge themselves to become healthier, happier, and better.

But when standing at 13,500 and staring at the miles forward and thousands of feet of elevation left to go. Well, then there is only one path up the mountain, the one under your feet. The one you have been walking since you started in the pre-dawn. It’s the only path that will take you to the summit amidst the wind and the rain. Periodically the sun tries to break through the clouds, but it is ever rebuffed. There will be no sun today. There will be no respite.

The plan was to summit.

The goal was never to “summit if the sun comes out and the weather is pleasant.” Nor was it to “summit if the trail is easy and we don’t feel overly tired.” It was simply to summit if possible.

And it’s not as if we didn’t prepare. Two weeks earlier, at a similar altitude, three of our party were stopped and unable to continue. Two were physically ill, vomiting by the side of the trail. The heights of the Andes Mountains had shown us their preeminence, and we had taken steps. This time we had arrived early, taken practice hikes, and became accustomed to the thin air.

Control the variables you can control and prepare as best you can.

That’s all any of us can do. And then face up to your challenge, even as it looms ahead of you and above you, casting a shadow at your feet.

But our preparation for climbing this volcano didn’t start last week or the one before. It began years ago in a dojo: when we tried to keep up with the green belt who could kick higher and faster than we could; at our yellow belt test, when we did more pushups than we thought possible. At all of our black belt tests when we kept going despite all of the reasons to stop.

We all encounter mountains every day. Sometimes they are literal mountains, but more often, they are personal and professional challenges that try to make us stumble; to force us back a step; that try to make us give up. And in those moments, we go back to our orange belt test when we tried harder than we thought we could; when we did one more pushup; when we stood tall as our body yearned to crumble.

Comfort is not the goal.

It’s not the goal of mountain climbing, and it is the goal of Kempo training. The goal is to force yourself to do more than you have done so you can become more than you were.

Our path has always been, and will always be Kempo.

It took us up that mountain, and I’m confident it will take us up the next, no matter where it is or what shape it takes.

Potomac Kempo - Many Paths Up the Mountain

What mountains has your Kempo training taken you up? 

Dojo Is Where Your Class Is

I’ve opened a number of dojos over the years. One of the exciting things about opening a new martial arts studio is seeing the time when it is just a construction site and experiencing the magical moment when it becomes a dojo.

Yesterday the painter was working in his coveralls and boots, taking his lunch break in the middle of the room. Today the carpeting is being installed by men who walk callously through the venerated keyhole doorway and don’t know what a dojo is—or that they are helping to build it. But tomorrow—tomorrow we will call it a dojo. Shoes will be shed at the door, we will all bow as we enter, and the tone inside will be focused and respectful.

So what if you’re training in your living room?

I have trained in more than a dozen countries in the world. I have trained in my own home, rented apartments, and hotel rooms. I have trained on roofs, in courtyards, and behind kitchens. Back alleys, dingy basements, and mountain tops.

I have had good classes, and I have had bad classes. But it’s never been the fault of the setting. It’s never been the lack of mats or mirrors that has dictated the quality of my class or my training. It’s the focus and respect that we bring to each class that creates a good experience for us and those around us.

We create a dojo wherever we are when we enter and conduct ourselves with a focus and respect that our training deserves. Approached with the right spirit, your living room is a dojo.

So be sure to arrive early, get warmed up, bow, and pay your proper respects. Welcome to your dojo.

Potomac Kempo - Dojo Is Where Your Class Is
The Santillo boys training with Renshi Cassie from our living room in Cambodia

The Instructor Connection and Your Personal Dojo

I was a teenager when I started my Kempo training. I didn’t own a car; if I couldn’t get a ride from a friend, I would jog to the studio. The dojo wasn’t far away, but it was straight uphill. On a clear day, rare back then, you could see Mount Baldy looming in the background just a dozen miles off. No matter how many times I ran that slope, it never seemed to get any flatter. Regardless, eventually, I would round the corner and look towards the studio.

Potomac Kempo - The Instructor Connection and Your Personal Dojo

A Shift

Just seeing a karate studio can create a shift in your state; the anticipation of the training—the sweat, challenge, and camaraderie—brightens your mood and lightens your step. Every class was a chance to improve, to become somehow better than I was before. Each obstacle overcome is the process of fulfilling our destiny one little bit at a time. And camaraderie… It’s funny, many people think of the martial arts as a solitary pursuit, but those who have ever set foot in a dojo know that the people on the journey with you are what makes it all real. A good training partner will both challenge you and ground you.

And so it was. I walked into the dojo to be separate from life for a few hours. I shook hands and hugged my friends and compatriots in ways that we can’t right now. I warmed up in a space dedicated to martial arts, not a corner of my living room. We worried about getting punched, but we never worried about contagion.

Potomac Kempo - The Instructor Connection and Your Personal Dojo

Different Now

It is all different now. We all miss our dojos and that feeling arriving there.

But that was only part of the story—it was always only part of the story. Those who describe the martial arts as a solitary activity aren’t right, but they aren’t entirely wrong either. Training with a partner is better; there is no denying that. But understand: your training comes alive in the relationship between you to your instructor. That has always been true, but in the absence of other variables, it becomes more apparent and more striking.

We all miss the joy of arriving at the studio, meeting training partners, and making contact. But for now, we need to focus on ourselves and that connection with our instructor. Bring that into focus, challenge yourself, and rise to the challenges that your Sensei holds out in front of you. Use this opportunity to grow in all of the different ways available to you.

Your Personal Dojo

Eventually, we’ll train together again, and we’re all looking forward to that. But for now, move the furniture out of the way, put on your uniform and belt, warm up and connect with your instructor from your personal dojo.

Two-Thirds of a Block — The Complexities of Blocking Simplified

At the risk of seeming to oversimplify a complicated issue, allow me to state that a block consists of three parts. The three parts are an inward check, and outward clear, and movement. 

Now, before anyone takes exception to my broad generalization, allow me two caveats. The first is that there are myriad actions one can take before, during, and after a block that could conceivably confuse the isolation of a block. Secondly, and to my mind, most interestingly, a sufficiently proficient practitioner need only execute two of the three parts. 

To understand the three parts and how they work together, we must first understand our limitations and our objective. For simplicity, let’s confine our discussion to a single punch being thrown towards the face (though the principles we’ll discuss hold regardless). In that case, our objective is to clear the area between our opponent and ourselves—the space through which a fist needs to travel to reach us. Our limitations, as it pertains to this discussion, is that our hands and arms only function with optimal speed and power in a relatively small area. Place your hands together at shoulder level, bend your elbows down to ninety degrees, and imagine the area proscribed by your arms. Only in that space do your hands work with maximum effect.

Potomac Kempo - Two-Thirds of a Block — The Complexities of Blocking Simplified

The Four Blocking Methods

So, as an arm travels towards you, you have a couple of options. The first is to utilize all three parts of a complete block. The other three are to use two of the three components. Thus:

  1. Movement, Inward Check, Outward Clear
  2. Inward Check, Outward Clear
  3. Movement, Inward Check
  4. Movement, Outward Clear

I will discuss these three options, but first, feel the need for some more caveats and notes. For most people, the movement mentioned will be a full footed step to the inside or outside. To the sufficiently advanced, it may only be a properly-timed and executed rotation. It perhaps goes without saying, but in the case of using some movement along with an inward check or an outward clear (but not both), your second hand is available for an extra strike before, during, or after the block. 

Option 1. Movement, Inward Check, Outward Clear

After training basics in a stationary stance with the inward check and outward clear that we will discuss in Option 2, we typically move onto this scenario: Movement, Inward Check, Outward Clear — or if we didn’t we probably should have. By using all three parts of a complete block, we maximize our chance of success. 

By moving, we accomplish several things, but for this discussion, we’re focussing on the fact that we can move to a place where our arms can move more effectively relative to the incoming strike. Then we can apply our inward check and our outward clear as in Option 2, but with an even greater chance of success. 

Moving Beyond Option 1.

From this grounding, we can work to remove each of the three components of our block one at a time. We can come to appreciate how proper stepping can position us such that fewer movements are necessary or, when movement is prohibited for some reason, we can make do without it. 

Eventually, we can learn to make our steps and our arm movements progressively smaller while maintaining effectiveness. Finally, we may discover that proper rotation can replace the need to step, but it is counterproductive to focus on—or attempt—this before one is ready. 

Option 2. Inward Check, Outward Clear

This is where most of us began our martial arts training: standing in a horse stance practicing blocks. We may have worked only inward checks for a period or only outward clears for a time, but eventually, they came together.

Abstaining from footwork, we are reliant on both hands operating in the space in which they are each most capable. So, one hand executes an inward check pressing from its side of center to a little past center, and the other hand performs an outward clear from just past center to its side of center. All done with only a modicum of necessary hip movement. 

That this works is terrific, but its inclusion here is more for category completion than anything else; if we can move our feet, we should.

Options 3 and 4. Movement, Inward Check OR Outward Clear

In the absence of proper movement, the range and angle of both the inward block and outward clear will be compromised, causing decreased efficacy and lowered chance of success. There are various other benefits to moving that are beyond the scope of this article, but for our purposes here, what we intend to accomplish by stepping is to move to a place where the triangle created by our arms is to one side of their arm. This allows us to rotate and apply either our inward check or our outward clear effectively. 

Remarkably, by positioning correctly, we can create a situation where one of our hands can accomplish the entire block without the support of the other hand. Thus we free up our other hand for all of the other things you might want to do with it, such as striking or holding a bottle of water. 

Two-Thirds of a Block

Blocking is an expansive topic, and I tried to simplify the discussion adequately to fit it all in one place. We have left out discussions of timing, ranging, preparatory movement on your part or that of your opponent, and much more. We can discuss these elsewhere, but I am going to leave off here and save that for another day. Thank you for reading; please share your thoughts.

Take a Breath and Keep Practicing

At the Shaolin Temple, we had the privilege of training with a senior monk possessing the congenial, relaxed demeanor that so often accompanies mastery. Working in a back alley behind the ancient curved rooftops, watched only occasionally by resident (indifferent) cats and our taciturn teacher, we aimed to make our bodies mimic the skills being offered.

My family visiting the Shaolin Temple in 2019

In such a setting, and after more than twenty years of practicing martial arts, it might be tempting to be frustrated when left for forty-five minutes in the blistering Chinese sun to practice the same three moves repeatedly.

But that might indicate that one had not gleaned much from his or her practice.

We might get frustrated.

As instructors, we strive to provide feedback and guidance, as well as an appropriate amount of independent practice time. It is a delicate balance to create, as all people—and all practice sessions—are unique. Even respecting this inherent challenge, when we are students (we never stop being students), we might be tempted to feel like the balance is off a little bit, that our instructor should give us more feedback, or more material to practice. We might get frustrated.

On the other hand, we also might remember that we are responsible for our reactions. And, we might remember that none of the critical responses listed above would net us what we came for—which is to learn more, practice more, and to become a better, stronger, more proficient martial artist.

And so, you wipe your brow, take another breath, and work with what you are given.

And so, you wipe your brow, take another breath, and work with what you are given—practicing the same movement again and again. Which, after all, is the only way to get better.

I think we get very used to having things our own way. We are acclimatized to personalized service and customized everything. Only rarely do we run up against a venue in which we don’t get to make choices, and some part of our mind rebels.

Maybe our instructor knows better than us how we should spend our time.

But, customizing everything presupposes that we know what is best. With regard to the settings on our mobile phone, that supposition is probably accurate. Concerning the practice of martial arts, maybe it isn’t. Maybe our instructor—who almost by definition is further along the path than we are—knows better than us how we should spend our time.

And so, you wipe your brow, take another breath, and keep practicing. You see, we’re never done practicing—not today, not this drill or form, and not in this lifetime.

Our Mission

Our Mission is to positively impact the world by inspiring excellence in the men, women, and children we serve — challenging them to become healthier, happier, and better through the practice of the Martial Arts.

Potomac Kempo Mission Statement

I believe firsthand in the power of these words. A mission statement is an organization’s effort to articulate its purpose to the world and, though our mission statement serves that purpose, it began simply as a personal quest. 

Potomac Kempo - Our Mission
Visiting the Shaolin Temple, Henan, China in 2001

The word, “healthier,” hearkens back to my earliest days as a martial artist. Not long after first putting on my white belt, I began to experience the benefits that practicing martial arts has to offer. The conditioning I acquired through my training afforded me well-rounded physical well-being that elevated my abilities in many other activities. I could hike, bike, run, climb, and endure challenges with grace and aplomb while feeling vibrant and healthy.

Finding this mastery of my body led me to discover the possibility of possessing similar results with my mind. I could better stay on task, work toward long-term goals, and modulate my internal states. I became happier. I came to believe that anything was possible. 

The concept of being “better” evolved more slowly, and couldn’t become clearly articulated until I laid down the Pillars of Kempo, much later in my career. I feel that the Learning, Integrity, and Service integral to the martial arts are the foundation for building a better life. In the absence of Learning, we are empty; we lack the substance from which to build a life. We must be open to that Learning, in the dojo and beyond. Building a solid life requires Integrity — being honest and fulfilling our obligations. And through Service, we give that life significance.

Potomac Kempo - Our Mission

As I became an instructor, I was able to see my students experience these same benefits. Later, my wife, Holly, became a student and eventually our children, too, began their training. As I write this now, I can appreciate the benefit of martial arts training as a student, an instructor, a partner, and a parent. And I love it. 

Potomac Kempo - Our Mission

This life is a shared experience. We live alongside all the other people in our world, and we are continually impacting them — either for better or worse. By elevating ourselves through our martial arts training, we can, in a very real sense, make the world a better place. From one person to many, we change the world by sharing the lessons Kempo teaches us. 

It is worth noting, though, that I can do none of this by myself; nor can Potomac Kempo. It is only through our students that we can change the world. To this end, we challenge our students to rise to the occasion, become the best version of themselves, and join with us in making the world a better place.

Reprising our Mission Statement feels particularly poignant as we celebrate the opening of our fifth school. With love and admiration, we congratulate Renshi Cassie and Mr. Cothran on the opening of our newest location: Potomac Kempo – National Landing. 

Chris Santillo, Shihan
Founder, Head Instructor

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Holly being promoted to her current rank
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